Before she starts

Phone arrangements with your helper: what to discuss

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Your helper keeps her own phone. MOM’s published guidance supports access, practical safety discussions, feasible family-call arrangements and household privacy. Use the worksheet below to discuss expectations together. It is a planning aid, not a contract or a statement of Apex’s house rules.

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What the published guidance says

MOM’s Ask Jaya column on phone access treats the device as the helper’s personal property. It recommends discussing safety during duties, workable call times, unexpected urgent calls and permission before sharing household photos or information. These are published guidance points, not a new phone-use statute.

The 2 February 2018 employment-agency alert also tells agencies to explain that helpers retain their phones and can use them during rest hours. The alert’s date matters: it is not a new 2026 regulation.

Discuss expectations during the interview

Before choosing a candidate, describe your actual day. For example, explain when you need direct communication about school collection or a family member’s routine. Ask how she would manage those communications alongside personal calls. A useful discussion checks mutual understanding; a promise to accept a blanket phone ban is not evidence that someone is a good match.

For an Indonesian helper shortlist or a Filipino helper enquiry, assess the individual’s communication in the interview. Do not assume phone habits or language ability from nationality.

A phone-arrangement discussion worksheet

Original informal planning prompts: not a contract, legal waiver, consent form or Apex policy. Print or copy the table and complete it together. This page has no form and collects none of your answers.

On a small screen, swipe across the table to read both columns. Keyboard users can focus the table area and use the arrow keys.

Discuss these points together; leave space for both people’s concerns
Discussion promptNotes to agree together
Access and custodyHow will she keep and reach her own phone without handing it over?
Tasks needing attentionWhich specific tasks need uninterrupted attention? How can a call wait until the situation is safe?
Family callsWhich times work for her family’s routine and time zone? What flexibility is needed?
An urgent callHow will she alert you, pause the task safely and contact family when something unexpected happens?
Photos and messagesWhose permission is needed before sharing pictures or details of the household?
Rest and personal timeHow will the daily plan leave time to rest and contact people outside the household?
Reviewing the arrangementWhen will both people discuss what is practical and what needs changing?

Copy the prompts into your own notes, then add both people’s answers. The suggested questions do not create employment terms.

Put the conversation alongside the daily plan

Read the notes with your household schedule and first-week checklist. If the plan leaves no practical personal time, revisit the workload rather than expecting the phone discussion to solve it. Make sure the explanation is understood; agreement on a page is not proof of understanding.

Keep the rest-day arrangements separate. For home recording devices, use the CCTV and privacy guide. This worksheet does not determine internet-payment obligations or replace advice on a specific employment dispute.

If the arrangement stops working

Describe the particular task or misunderstanding, ask for her explanation and revisit the notes together. Avoid turning a disagreement into taking the phone away, reading private messages or monitoring personal calls. For an unresolved employment issue, check the appropriate MOM guidance or seek advice on the actual circumstances.

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Keep access to her own phone separate from the discussion about when and how it is used.

Questions

Phone-arrangement planning — common questions

Is this worksheet an employment contract?

No. It is an informal discussion aid, not a contract, legal waiver, consent form or Apex policy. Use it to record questions and revisit practical arrangements together.

Should I discuss phone arrangements before choosing a helper?

Describe your actual daily communication needs during the interview and ask the candidate to explain her understanding. Assess the individual rather than assuming phone habits from nationality.

Does a household photo rule replace CCTV privacy checks?

No. Discuss permissions for sharing household photos separately from any recording devices at home. The CCTV and privacy guide addresses that different topic.

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